{"id":9955,"date":"2019-01-02T13:39:49","date_gmt":"2019-01-02T21:39:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/redshoezone.ca\/?p=9955"},"modified":"2019-01-03T08:04:42","modified_gmt":"2019-01-03T16:04:42","slug":"how-do-you-want-to-feel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ohmywordjournal.com\/redshoezone\/how-do-you-want-to-feel\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you want to feel?"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019re more of a goal setter vs a dreamer.<\/p>\n

Try something new this year.<\/p>\n

Take a page from the book of Ariane de Bonvoisin.<\/a><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t just think\u2026FEEL<\/h1>\n

Instead of just writing the goals on a crisp new sheet of blank paper, ask yourself one question.<\/p>\n

How do I most want to feel this year?<\/em><\/p>\n

This question takes goals and resolutions out of the “task” frame and into the “experience” frame.<\/p>\n

Every goal you have ever made is because deep down you wanted to feel something \u2014more freedom, more abundance, more fun, more love, more external recognition, more safety.<\/p>\n

Pick one that’s the real reason you want to achieve your goals this year.<\/p>\n

After all, what the heart wants to\u00a0feel<\/em>\u00a0is a better motivator than what the ego wants to\u00a0get done<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Last year Ariane had a goal to publish her second book. It didn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

What did happen was that she got creative and wrote a different one. She wanted to feel creative and have a sense of progress and momentum. She got it.<\/p>\n

ACTION<\/h1>\n

How do you want to feel?<\/p>\n

Narrow it down to 1 or 2 feelings.<\/p>\n

This year let feelings be your guide.<\/p>\n

Did you miss these?<\/h2>\n

If you missed them….<\/h2>\n

New Beginnings – Welcoming the New Year<\/a><\/p>\n

DREAM<\/a><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019re more of a goal setter vs a dreamer. Try something new this year. Take a page from the book of Ariane de Bonvoisin. Don\u2019t just think\u2026FEEL Instead of just writing the goals on a crisp new sheet of blank paper, ask yourself one question. 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