{"id":9640,"date":"2017-11-16T10:09:34","date_gmt":"2017-11-16T18:09:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/redshoezone.ca\/?p=9640"},"modified":"2017-11-16T07:42:21","modified_gmt":"2017-11-16T15:42:21","slug":"simple-technique-transform-life-play","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ohmywordjournal.com\/redshoezone\/simple-technique-transform-life-play\/","title":{"rendered":"Simple Technique to Transform Life – PLAY"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you remember what it felt like to play?<\/strong><\/p>\n

It was a spontaneous expression of joy.<\/p>\n

You were firmly anchored in the present moment and you didn\u2019t (for one second) worry if you were playing the \u2018right\u2019 way or the \u2018wrong\u2019 way.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t think about how to play \u2013 you just did it.<\/p>\n

You were completely free; exploring, experimenting and taking risks.<\/p>\n

You lost track of time and were in the flow.<\/em><\/p>\n

Aaaaahhhh<\/em>\u2026now you remember.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t get much better than that.<\/p>\n

But somehow we forget how to play or think play is just for kids and has no place in our busy, responsibility filled lives.<\/p>\n

IS PLAY THE MISSING PIECE?<\/strong><\/p>\n

It might sound strange, but I regularly recommend play to coaching clients. There\u2019s always a moment of silence after I say, \u201cThis week add more play to your day!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cPlay??\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s followed by a perplexed, questioning, furrowed brow expression that says, Seriously??<\/p>\n

Seriously.<\/p>\n

Play helps us connect with the most authentic, elemental part of ourselves where our deepest desires live. You can only get there by letting go and letting yourself have fun. Without sufficient play, everything health wise suffers \u2013 including cravings, sleep and stress. The more play in your life, the better you\u2019ll feel in your body and soul.<\/p>\n

HOW DO WE DEFINE PLAYFULNESS?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cheerfulness, humour, creativity and expressiveness are defining characteristics of playfulness. When you play you\u2019re without fear, open to the unexpected and willing to embrace new behaviors. Playing takes you out of your head and allows your heart to take the lead. Play lets you step into action, and you need to act to make any desired change in your life.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cPlay is something done for its own sake,\u201d<\/em> says Dr. Stuart Brown, head of the nonprofit National Institute for Play<\/a>. It\u2019s voluntary, its pleasurable, it offers a sense of engagement, it takes you out of time where the act is more important than the outcome.<\/p>\n

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Play opens our hearts, allowing us to take risks and make changes.<\/p><\/div>\n

HOW DO WE GET MORE PLAY IN OUR LIVES?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Play becomes an important strategy for making changes in your life because it gets you out of your comfort zones allows a reset of your attitude in affirmative, creative, solution-oriented ways. What other activity begs you to surrender so wholeheartedly without having any idea about the outcome? Especially for perfectionist type A\u2019s play is an opportunity let go and have fun.<\/p>\n

You can incorporate play anywhere, even in places you might now consider.<\/p>\n

SHOULDN\u2019T BEING HEALTHY ALSO BE FUN?<\/strong><\/p>\n

As a society we are brainwashed to think we must work really hard and possibly even suffer to get healthy or bring good into our lives. This just isn\u2019t true. Playfulness becomes the key to health and happiness.<\/p>\n

Play can help us:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trust others.<\/p>\n

Get unstuck.<\/p>\n

Destress.<\/p>\n

Break habits and make changes.<\/p>\n

Become more creative.<\/p>\n

Feel alive we feel more fully engaged sand find pure joy.<\/p>\n

Love ourselves.<\/p>\n

WHY DO WE STOP PLAYING WHEN WE GET OLDER?<\/strong><\/p>\n

We fill our lives up with \u2018to-dos.\u2019 We take on too much. We overwork. \u00a0The inner critic tells us others will somehow find us unacceptable if we play. Type A\u2019s want to control everything\u00a0 and play demands surrender.<\/p>\n

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Make a list of what you loved to do as a kid. Do that.<\/p><\/div>\n

ACTION:<\/strong> My Challenge to you is to add more play to your day.<\/p>\n

22 EASY WAYS TO PLAY<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Get outside \u2013 go for walk \u2013 keep a bouncy ball in your pocket and use on you walk.<\/li>\n
  2. Have coloring breaks – bring out the coloured pencils, marker or crayon and color away.<\/li>\n
  3. Go to a dance class. Or try a dance exercise type class like Zumba.<\/li>\n
  4. Doodle<\/li>\n
  5. Have a conversation a child between the ages of 4 \u2013 8. Ask them, \u201cI have to learn how to play\u2026What advise could you give me?\u201d If they say \u2018I don\u2019t know\u2019 tell them they are a play expert and that\u2019s why you\u2019re asking. Encourage them to think up something. You\u2019ll be surprise by the risks they take with their thinking once they\u2019ve been given the go ahead.<\/li>\n
  6. Go on an adventure with a child? Where would you like to go? What would you like to do? Let them lead.<\/li>\n
  7. Do something with your hands. – Bake. Work with clay. Paint. Swew. Lego?<\/li>\n
  8. Jump on a trampoline<\/li>\n
  9. Try hula hooping.<\/li>\n
  10. Take an everyday household object (i.e. twist tie, paperclip, paper bag,) and come up with 10 alternative uses for it.<\/li>\n
  11. Talk to your pet.<\/li>\n
  12. What did you love to do as a kid? Make a list. Do one a day<\/li>\n
  13. Hang with a kid. They innately know how to have fun and play.<\/li>\n
  14. Ask a lot of questions with a big smile on your face.<\/li>\n
  15. Have a bubble blowing competition<\/li>\n
  16. Get really excited about everything. Just for fun<\/li>\n
  17. Go on an adventure. Just go. Something will happen.<\/li>\n
  18. Have a water fight<\/li>\n
  19. Make it a practice to do really nice things for people who will never find out it was you.<\/li>\n
  20. Sing happy music karaoke style<\/li>\n
  21. Wear different colored sox.<\/li>\n
  22. Play card games. Play Board games.\n

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    “You’re an expert on play, what advise do you have for me?”<\/p><\/div><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    What are your ideas for play? Please share in the comment box below so we can all share in the FUN!<\/p>\n

    Please pass this post along to friends who need more play.<\/p>\n

    More playful reading:<\/p>\n

    Fun ways to create new habits<\/a><\/p>\n

    Doodle for fun <\/a><\/p>\n

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